Lena arrived in Canada on July 2024, and I still remember the first time I met her during our in-person orientation here in Vancouver. She was quiet and nervous, as per the other Au Pairs who were just about to start their journey here in Canada. Fast forward 10 months, and I’m proud to say she’s transformed into a confident, well-spoken women. Seeking her growth, not just in skills, but mentally and emotionally, has been truly inspiring.
Having completed her placement in a smaller town in British Columbia, I wanted to take this opportunity to ask Lena for some advice that could help new Au Pairs, especially those planning to start their journey and wondering what it would be like to be placed in a small town.
Advise for Au Pairs Heading to a Smaller Town📍:
“Give yourself time. The first month can be challenging, as everything is new, and it can take a lot of energy to adjust to your new surroundings. I remember feeling frustrated with myself because I was so tired during that first month, but it’s completely normal. It’s important to be patient and let yourself adapt.
Even though I’m an extrovert, it’s tough for me to start conversations with new people and it’s difficult to put myself out there to try new activities on my own. But I was able to learn and push myself out of my comfort zone. It’s essential to put yourself out there. Start with small interactions, and slowly you’ll be able to meet others in the area.
Also, remember to not put too much pressure on yourself. You don’t need to have everything figured out right away. Take your time, settle in, and get comfortable in your new home.”
How Did You Meet People in the Area💛?
Meeting people in a smaller town can be challenging, especially when you’re new to the area. Lena shared how she took proactive steps to connect with others:
“My Host Family was a huge help in introducing me to their friends and family. They were so welcoming, and through them, I was able to meet more people. I also joined local Facebook groups and searched for activities in the area that I could get involved in. This allowed me to connect with people, not just locally, but across Canada.
Being open to new opportunities and embracing new experiences is important. I tried to keep an open mind, and that helped me connect with many wonderful people during my time here.”
What’s Something You’ve Learned During Your Time in Canada💡?
Looking back at her 10 month journey, Lena shared a powerful reflection on what she’s learned:
“The biggest thing I’ve learned is that I’ve gained so much confidence in myself. I’ve become more independent and open to trying new things. Canada has been an amazing place for personal growth. I’ve pushed myself out of my comfort zone, and I’m proud of the person I’ve become. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it.”
Lena’s story is a testament to the personal growth and resilience that comes with the Au Pair experience, especially when placed in a smaller town. Through patience, openness, and self-compassion, she navigated the challenges and came out stronger on the other side.
If you’re an aspiring Au Pair unsure if being placed in a smaller town is something for you, take Lena’s advice to heart:
Give yourself time, embrace new experiences, and don’t put too much pressure on yourself.
The Journey is as much about self-discovery as it is about helping your Host Family. Enjoy every moment, and remember that growth comes with time and experience.
